Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Photos of the final days and funeral


Taken about a month before dad passed away. Beaula is on his right and niece Marie (from Boralessa) is on the left. Niece Delphine (daughter of his sister Kate) is in front.


These two photos were taken about three weeks before dad passed away.




With Roy on July 1. Roy was visiting from the USA.




With Beaula. She had arrived in late May from the USA and was with dad throughout his final days.




At home in Seeduwa


Fawzia



Visitors from Ambakelle, where dad managed an estate for the Coconut Research Institute in the 1960s

July 8 morning. Fr. Jayamanne and Fr. Rodrigo from St. Anthony's Church at the final blessing




Relatives singing Methodist hymns




July 8 morning. With Beaula






Beaula and Mrs. G.M. Fernando




Casket being carried to the gravesite at Kanatte, in Borella, Colombo. Relative Chryshantha and nephew Charlie are in front. The cortege left the house at 10am and reached Kanatte, a drive of about 20 kms, at 11.00.



The casket was opened at the grave site for a final viewing



Beaula's friend Swarna, cousin Marie, Rani, and Deepi (Charlie's wife). At the back is Latha, dad's faithful domestic helper for four years.

Charlie, Bandara, and musician Victor Ratnayake


Lalitha (Beaula's sister-in-law) with son Shan





After a short prayer, four hymns were sung, two in Sinhala followed by "Amazing Grace" and "Nearer my God to thee"



A final glimpse of the casket


Mervin Karunaratne, a family friend, delivering the eulogy in English. The Sinhala eulogy was delivered by cousin Gemunu Athula.



Beaula at the grave


Me at the grave


Fawzia lighting a candle


Prasanna, a close friend of my parents

Bandara, me, and musician Victor R.


With classmates from St. Mary's, Chilaw. Sarath Abeysinghe, Sharmaline Cooray and her husband Victor. Sarath and Sharmaline were my classmates in the mid-1960s.


Beaula with Mrs. G.M. Fernando and daughter Indrani. Mrs. F'do has been a family friend for more than 50 years. She and my mother worked at the Negombo Hospital in the late 1950s.


Fawzia, her sister-in-law Chandra, daughter Malki, Gihan, & Fati



Beaula, me, Victor, & classmates

Chryshantha and Sunil, a friend of Beaula's



Cousin Pearl, Anton (who helped with dad in the final days) & Prasanna


Cousin Gemunu Athula, who took the photos of the funeral

Dad passed away

Teddy Braine passed away on July 6, 2009. He had been complaining of a pain on the right side of the hip for some time, but, despite a hospital stay, no proper diagnosis had been made. A CT scan on June 3 revealed advanced cancer, starting on the pelvic bone. My sister Beaula had arrived in late May and took loving care of him in the final days, the best any parent could have. I arrived in mid-June. We were with him when he passed away. Fawzia and Roy had also seen him recently. Dad went with dignity and in peace.

He was 83, and was buried at Kanatte, in Borella, in the family plot where his father-in-law Walter George Fernando and his wife Adline Fernie Beatrice Braine are also buried.

I'll be posting photos of the funeral. As for the blog, a few more excerpts of dad's autobiography remain to be uploaded.


June 2008. Dad singing along with Gihan at Chilaw.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Scattered Siblings


Rosie, Bee, & Lucy at "Beehive"

Photo taken at Boralessa in the mid-1990s. Standing Bee, Teddy, & Lucy. Rosie is seated.

During school holidays the family would gather at home for a song and dance party to music from a Decca gramophone on H.M.V. records. The popular war songs were

“Kiss me good night Sergeant major”
“White cliffs of Dover”
“Oh my Darling Clementine”
“You are my sunshine”
“Roll out the barrel”
“Daisy, Daisy, give me your answer do”
“White Christmas”
“It’s a long long way to Tipperary”
“Pack up your troubles in your own kit bag and Smile, Smile, Smile”
“Good Night Irene, Good Night” and
“God Save The King”.

These were the songs the English soldiers and sailors sang when marching on the roads. We had a large Phillips valve radio that worked on battery and was used only to get BBC news regarding the war when Hitler was invading countries in Europe, and Prime Minister Winston Churchill was fighting the Battle of Britain and the Japanese were invading countries in Asia. Eventually, Hitler had to surrender to the allies namely Britain, Russia and the United States of America. Thereafter the United States dropped the Atomic bomb on Hiroshima and Nagasaki forcing the Emperor to surrender bringing to an end the cruel war in the East.

One by one my sisters were married and like birds on wings left the family nest at “The Meet” to marry partners of their own selection.

Mary to Quintin Wijesekara
Rosie to Marshall Thamel
Lucy to Martin Perera
Amy to Joseph Chelvaratnam
Alice to Ned Nicol
Kate to William Le Mottee and then to Mike Fuad
George to Rose Nicol
Bridget to Eddie Wambeek
Benjamin to Thelma Stevens
Theobald (Me) to Adline Fernie Beatrice Fernanado

Mary at "Pondside", her home. February 1977.

I cannot remember the marriages of my elder sisters since I was in the boarding and was allowed to go home only for very short periods of time

Sister Alice first left home to teach at a convent in Chilaw. Thereafter she worked as a nurse at Teldeniya hospital where she had met Ned Nicol. He used to visit our home in Boralessa with his guitar on weekends and we had a grand sing-song. Their wedding was during a rainy season followed by severe floods. To get to the church we had to wade waist deep in flood water to cross the Kochchikade bridge. He worked on a rubber estate in Aspokuna (near Kandy) where I spent my holidays sometimes. He was a fine gentleman and had three brothers Robin, Earl and Marny and a younger sister Rose. They were all a jolly crowd. Alice, now in her 90’s, lives in Bisbane close to her three daughters Maureen, Virginia, and Heather.

Sister Kate had met William Le Mottee who was a friend of Ned’s and owned an estate of rubber and cocoa at Kosambe, Teldeniya, which also had a large poultry farm. After living a few years on the estate and the birth of a baby girl Delphine, they moved into our house “Stanlodge” in Negombo to send the child to school. In a few years Kate got a divorce and married Mike Fuad who was a clerk at Trinity College. Mike was a keen sportsman and visited the estates where I worked to go on hunting trips. They have a son Donald who was also a keen hunter. They migrated to Australia some years back. Kate passed away a few years ago in Brisbane, where her son Don resides.

Sister Amy first met Joseph Chelveratnam when he as a student visited our home to learn English. They had met again when she was nursing and were married and lived at “Stanlodge”. They had seven children. Amy joined nursing and was last stationed at Ragama Hospital having risen to become Chief Matron. She was of immense help when my son Roy was admitted to Ragama Hospital for a major operation. Joseph passed away in Sri Lanka. Amy and the children migrated to Australia and she too passed away on 6th September 2000. All her children are in Australia. Only her son Lloyd keeps in touch with me.

Sister Lucy became a matron and had met Martin Perera a building contractor. They married and lived in his ancestral home at Kotahena. She was a jewel of a lady and was loved and respected by the medical staff who worked with her and the patients who came under her care. When she was matron at Dickoya hospital, she took me to spend my holidays with her. She has one daughter Charmaine, who now resides abroad. Lucy's last days were not happy and she also passed away in the mid-1990s.

By the mid1940s, only Bridget (Bee), my youngest sister, was at “The Meet” with mother and me. She became my favorite and we spent a number of happy years during my working period in Colombo until her marriage to Eddie Wambeek. He was the best of my brothers-in-law who also happened to be a friend of brother Benny at St Thomas College, Matale. He had been having an eye on Bridget who was then studying in the adjoining Convent of St. Agnes. Eddie was then a sergeant in the Army and very smart in uniform. After their marriage they were our regular visitors and we too visited them until Eddie had to go on transfer as a senior Public Health Inspector after the war. One incident fresh in my mind was when we visited them in Ranna, a village in the deep South of Ceylon, which I have recounted in an previous entry.

May, 1982. Eddie, Rose, Geo, and Teddy at Iriyagolla Estate, Kuliyapitiya

By now sister Rosie had her baby a girl Marie Flavian Antonnett who was left with us at Boralessa as Rosie was away teaching at Gampola. Bee helped a lot in bringing up Marie. I would sometimes relieve her by standing beside the cot until Marie fell asleep. The naughty thing would open her eyes wide and yell at the top of her voice. I would then place my hand over her mouth and eyes for a while but the moment I took my hands away she would yell again until Bee came back and put her to sleep. Marie was the first grand child my parents saw and was often taken to see her granddad in Negombo. She grew up between Bee and me. We would take evening walks with her along the railway line to the culvert where we sat for some time till it was dusk. I would then signal to planes flying overhead with my torch light in morse code wishing them V for victory and they would thank in morse and fly away. Bee now lives in South Harrow in the UK.


January 24, 1963. Bee and family on the eve of their departure (by ship) to the UK. Teddy, Lucy, & Amy are in the photo. Teddy's second son Roy, who passed away later that year, is seen in front of his father. Edmund, Yvonne, George, Rosita, and Anne and Bee's younger children can also be seen, along with Charmaine, Lucy's only child

Brother George had married Rose Nicol (sister of Ned) and was working at the Glass Factory in Nattandiya and living at “Pondside” in Boralessa. He had been a student of St. Joseph’s College Colombo and was a thorough gentleman, soft spoken and God fearing. He had a hard life with a big family. His last job in Sri Lanka was as superintendent of Iriyagolla Estate in Kuliyapitiya. Much against his wishes he migrated to Australia with the family and worked there until his 81st birthday and passed away in peace on 25th June 1998. Three of his children, Jeanne, Douglas and Judy are still living in Sri Lanka.

Brother Benny married Thelma Stevens and lived on the family property Greenwood Estate, Lihiriyagama. With funds from the sale of produce from the land, he built a grand bungalow, had a poultry farm and bred dogs for sale. All family members were not welcome and only the affluent siblings would visit them. I have never been to their home. He had a lawyer friend, Hector Fernando, with whom he connived and deceived mother to bequeath her half share of Greenwood to him promising to look after her for life. The rest of the children had to share the balance half equally, each getting only about 2 acres of land. This resulted in most of us being disappointed and angry and selling our shares to outsiders. 

Ben could not enjoy this ill-gotten wealth for long, Thelma too was responsible for his downfall as she was a proud woman and guided him away from his loving kith and kin. He had to sell all he had and go to Australia where Thelma died first. Thereafter he lived with his former fiancee Kate Andrews, and passed away at a comparatively young age. He has one son Stanley from Thelma living down under. He is said to be a very good lad whom I have not met yet but would love to. 

Fate is the result of our past actions. It is we who forge our destiny with our own hands and heart. For years Benny squandered the income from ‘Greenwood’ which ought to have gone equally to all the children, nor did he make mother happy at Boralessa before leaving the country.

Ben was a play-boy as he had sufficient funds to spend on new cars and frequent trips to Colombo. He was also a good ballroom dancer. Probably that’s where he met Thelma. I can recollect joining him when he was a bachelor to Dr Anton Xavior’s wedding reception in a grand hotel. When dancing started a girl came up to me and we got to the floor. I had never danced before. In two minutes I had stepped thrice on her toes, she begged to be excused and limped to a chair. I was too shy to face her again that I went out of the hall and spent the rest of the night in the car until Ben came long past midnight.


May 1975. Family meeting Ben his arrival at the Katunayake Airport. Five siblings -- Teddy, Ben, Geo, Bridget, and Rosie are in the photo. Fernie and Rose are also present. Bridget (Bee) visited Sri Lanka regularly. Ben was on his only return visit from Australia.


May 1975. Ben with Judy, Marie (Chelvaratnam), &  Fawzia


May 1975. Teddy and Geo with grandchildren.

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Estate Life


By S.T. “Teddy” Braine

After my stint with the Health Department, I worked as a purchasing officer in a cooperative establishment in Colombo and left that after a few years to join Savoy Hotel as assistant manager. I was tired of office life and applied to the Coconut Research Institute (CRI) for a training course in coconut estate management. At the Interview, I was selected amongst the first five out of 385 applicants. Thereafter I worked at coconut estates in Mundel, Minuwangoda, Dankotuwa, Badalgama, and Nattandiya. Essentially, I was following in the footsteps of my father who had also been the manager of coconut plantations.

Of all these jobs, I most enjoyed being the superintendent of Carrington Group, Dankotuwa. It was a large estate of over 500 acres. My bungalow was on the top of a hill with sweeping vistas on all sides. The estate had a flourishing dairy so we had the fresh milk delivered to our doorstep every morning. One day at about 10 am, there was a shower of rain followed a sound of rocks falling on the roof. We all ran out to see where the rocks were coming from to be met by a hailstorm. Large pieces of ice started falling and damaging the roofs of houses and motor vehicles. The ground around my bungalow was covered with ice. In those days (this was 1956), refrigerators were rare and ice could be only had at “hotels” and eating places. Most of the labourers would never have seen or touched ice in their lives. Many of them, and my children as well, were struck with wonder. For some reason, the labourers began to collect ice in basins and brought them to my bungalow, streaming up the hill followed by their children. With ice strewn all over the ground, the estate resembled a winter wonderland. Of course, it didn’t last long and the ice melted away, but I don’t think anyone who experienced ice falling from the sky would ever forget that unusual event.



The bungalow at Rathmalagara Estate in 1969

In 1960, the CRI advertised a vacancy for a person with around ten years experience for the post of superintendent. An interview was held by the Director Dr F. C. Cooke and I was selected and posted to Rathmalagara Research Station, Madampe. The CRI had four research stations in the Puttalam District and I was soon transferred to the Isolated Seed Garden at Ambakele off the Chilaw-Puttalam highway. This research station was so called because of its unique location. In order to carry out research that would not be affected by coconut pollen brought in by bees, air currents, or humans from outside, the 200-acre Seed Garden had been carved out of virgin jungle, with a mile-thick band of reserved and protected jungle around it. Beyond the jungle were the chena cultivations of the villagers. In the jungle lived wild boar, deer, sambhur, monkey, jungle fowl, rock squirrel, and numerous species of snakes and birds. And, when the elephant herds were on the move, the jungle also harboured wild elephants. Most staff members, watchers and labourers lived within Ambakelle. Some lobourers would walk to work through the jungle, risking their lives when the wild elephants were around.



Teddy and son George on a visit to Ambakelle, in May 2005. The massive "palu" tree stands at the entrance to the estate. Bertie Rodrigo, the first superintendent of Ambakelle, had saved it when he cleared the jungle to plant coconut.

Apparently, Ambakelle lay in the path of the jungle corridor that the famous Deduru Oya herd of elephants had been traversing for probably hundreds of years. In the dry season, as the waterholes in Wilpattu dried-up, the elephants numbering in the hundreds would travel south to the Deduru Oya in search of water. By the 1960s, when I was posted to Ambakelle, the jungles had been cleared for agriculture and human habitation and the elephants were largely confined to Wilpattu. Nevertheless, old instincts remained and a few stray elephants would do the annual trek to Deduru Oya, taking their revenge on the human interlopers by destroying their chena cultivation. And these elephants would raid Ambakelle because they relished the young coconut seedlings. Years of painstaking research could be destroyed overnight.

Of course, shooting the elephants was out of the question. So an electric fence consisting of a thin wire connected to electric horns and 6-volt car batteries was erected right round the perimeter of Ambakelle. The wire would be activated in the evening and when it was tripped, usually by an elephant, the nearest horn would sound, thereby warning the patrolling “barrier” watchers. The watchers were the first line of defense and would attempt to scare the elephant off by lighting firecrackers. I would soon be on the spot by jeep and with the help of the watchers, the loud jeep horn, firecrackers, yells and hoots, eventually drive the elephants back into the jungle. We had little sleep at night when the elephant season was on.

Life at Ambakelle, in the middle of the jungle, was boring. There was no TV or telephone. The radio and an old gramophone were the only means of entertainment. We listened regularly to the music programs and “Muwanpelessa”, a popular radio play at the time. The nearest town was Chilaw, a good 15 miles away. Occasionally, we would drive to Chilaw to watch a movie but getting back home through the jungle at night was risky, especially when lone bull elephants were around. So the tractor driver Thomas would wait just outside the jungle and drive the tractor ahead of my Peugeot 203, making as much noise as possible to scare off the elephants by accelerating the tractor engine. Son George was schooling at Chilaw during this time and would bicycle through the jungle to catch the bus. I would sometimes drive him to the bus, carrying my shotgun with me. The jungle fowl were good meat for the pot.

Wild elephants were not the only threat. Hunters would roam the jungle, poaching the deer and wild boar and sometimes setting deadly trap guns. The villagers would also enter the jungle to cut down valuable trees. So we had to hire watchers to patrol the jungle, too. Once, I discovered that a fellow staff member had cut down a large number of valuable satinwood and “palu” trees and sawn the timber into planks. The planks were stored in his quarters waiting to be taken out of Ambakelle at a convenient time. I had to report the staff member who was later dismissed from his job.

One night, the barrier watchers had noosed a 14-foot python that had come to attack their chickens. They had dragged the heavy reptile to my bungalow premises in the night and tied the rope to a stout tree. Next morning when I came to the veranda the flowering tree I see daily was conspicuous by its absence. To my surprise, I noticed the tree moving some distance away; the python had by sheer power uprooted the tree and was dragging it away. The men thereafter tethered it to a coconut tree before it was released back to the jungle.

On another occasion, I was disturbed in my afternoon siesta by the frenzied shrill of a squirrel in the garden. On verifying, I noticed the squirrel on the trunk of a coconut tree about 3 feet from the ground with its head turned down staring at the ground. Suddenly, the squirrel was no longer on the tree and everything was silent. On closer scrutiny I noticed a large Russell’s viper (“polonga”) under the tree with only the tail of the squirrel sticking out of its mouth. A labourer killed the snake and brought it to my office. It measured 5 ½ ft.in length and was 9 inches in circumference. This disproved the general belief among villagers that a “polonga” cannot see during daytime. It had sprung three feet up the tree to catch the squirrel.

During my tenure at Ambakelle, a classic tragedy of jealousy, revenge, and murder occurred that’s still fresh in my mind. Charles Peiris was a contractor who undertook minor works at Ambakelle. He had three daughters, the two eldest married to tractor drivers Thomas and Piyasena. They were both cheerful, hard working men, although Thomas was addicted to kassippu. The youngest, unmarried daughter of the family was the prettiest, and both Thomas and Piyasena had been eyeing this girl, unknown to her parents as well her sisters, who were their wives. When the girl began to favor Piyasena with her affection, Thomas flew into a rage. One day, blind with jealousy, he ambushed and shot Piyasena dead. Charles Peiris lost a son-in-law, and if the police arrested Thomas, his daughter (Thomas’ wife) would have to struggle alone with her five children. So Charles Peiris took the rap for the killing and was arrested by the police. But the villagers, who knew the truth, petitioned and Charles Peiris was later released. Thomas never went to jail but died a few years later, a broken man.



Another estate where Teddy served was at Poththukulama near Pallama, only about 5 miles from Amabakelle. Teddy is seen here with George in a photo taken on a visit in May 2005. The bungalow seen behind is the L-shaped original one, which was surrounded by jungle in the 1960s. Teddy served here twice, once in the mid-1960s and again in the early 1970s.



At Poththukulama in 1974. From left Beaula, Teddy, and Fernie. The boy is cousin Rohan. Fernie's mother Roslind is seated. 


With Fernie in our retirement. She passed away in 2005