Sunday, November 20, 2016

Coming down from great, great grandfather Charles Joseph Braine

Charles Joseph Braine (1814-1890) m. Eudora Marriott (1815-1873) and had 10 children.



Eudora Marriott

Charles Joseph Braine


1. Eudora Mary Anne (1846-1893) m. Cornwallis Wade 
2. Julia Caroline (1848-1938) m. Dr. David Brodie 
3. Helen Mary (1849-1928) m. William J.S. Cooper
4. Charles Frederick (1850-1896) m. Adeline Becher
CFB died in Colombo and was buried there. They had five children (Charles Stanley, our grandpa), Eudora Adeline Mary, Muriel, William & a baby who died at 11 months.
5. Mary Isabel (1852-1868)
6. Lucy Catherine (1853-1893) m. Thomas A. Wylie
Lucy died in Ceylon and was buried in Colombo.
7. Arthur Belgrave (1854-1945)
8. + 9. John & Percy Newlyn (Twins) b. 1855. John died in Canada (1917)
9. Percy (worked at Royal Botanical Gardens, Kandy, and is buried in Kandy)
10. Alice (1857-1921) m. William Morton Smith

Aunty Kate

When she was a nurse. Somewhere in Ceylon.


With grandma, aunty Mary, and Mike, at Boralessa

Aunty Bee at grandpa's grave

At the Anglican section of the General Cemetery, Negombo. Aunty paid for the upkeep of the grave.

Around Boralessa circa 1980?

At "BeeHive". George, Teddy, Rosie. Gordon, Bandara, Marie, and George. Around 1980.

Teddy and George. Old "Pondside" house in background.

Better quality old photos

Grandma and kids. The older standing girl is Mary, a daughter from a previous liaison. Only six children are here. She had nine with C.S. Braine. 

Grandma Engracia Nonis

Grandpa Charles Stanley Braine

Thursday, November 17, 2016

Grandpa C.S. Braine's Will




On May 13, 1924, the day before he married Engracia Nonis (with whom he had lived for more than 15 years), grandpa wrote his will, registered No. 1363. He appointed Ronald McDonald, a fellow planter at nearby Giriulla, and Henry Francis Charles Phillips of Dolosbage, another planter in the central hill country, as his executors and trustees.

Grandpa bequeathed to his brother William Belgrave Beacher Braine and to his nephew John and his niece Delphine (both children of his brother) all shares and holdings which "he may possess" in any companies registered in England and any other property or effects in England.

Grandpa's collection of stamps and pictures painted by his mother and aunt were bequeathed to his sisters Mrs. Mary Combe and Mrs. Muriel Mackie. 

To Engracia Nonis of Boralessa village, grandpa bequeathed all his household furniture and all other articles of personal domestic or household use or ornament.

All the rest of his estate both real and personal were bequeathed to his trustees, to be converted to money to cover his debts and funeral and testamentary expenses, and to invest the surplus moneys in public trust funds and securities in the UK or India or any colony or dependency, and to pay Engracia Nonis an income during her lifetime from any parts of his estate that remained unsold. After Engracia Nonis' death, the income would be shared equally among his children. 

By a Codicil dated 25 November 1921, written 3 years before his death (registered No 1295), grandpa revoked the appointment of Ronald McDonald as an executor and trustee, and appointed Attorney Fred de Saram of Colombo in Mr. McDonald's place.

Note: I have only copied the important information from the Will and Codicil.

A number of matters arise:

1. At the time the Will was written, grandpa had fathered 8 children from Engracia Nonis. (My dad Teddy was born in 1926, after they were married.) So, why did he leave so little to his wife? What is not mentioned in the Will are the properties that may have been bought in Engracia Nonis' name: "The Meet" at Boralessa, the 50-acre Greenwood Estate close to Dankotuwa, "Stanlodge" and another property at Lewis Place, Negombo, and about 5 acres of land at Boralessa. Grandma lived at "The Meet" and the other properties were later divided among the children.

2. Why was Ronald McDonald dropped as a Trustee? From what my dad Teddy told me, uncle George was engaged to marry a Nora McDonald (who could have been Mr. McDonald's daughter). When uncle George fell for Rose Nicol and broke the engagement with Nora, grandpa and Mr. McDonald may have fallen out. Nora went onto marry Mr. Hugh Fernando, who later became the Speaker in Ceylon's Parliament.

3. When grandpa was recuperating from his injuries (he fell off a cart at Mawatte Estate), he stayed in Negombo, but not at his house, "Stanlodge". Apparently, he stayed at a guesthouse run by an Englishwoman, Mrs. Carey. When grandpa was dying and some of his children were attempting to convert him to Catholicism, Mrs. Phillips, the wife of the Mr. Phillips on the Will, was in Negombo and she had strongly opposed the conversion. Eventually, they compromised: grandpa died a Catholic but was buried in the Anglican section of the General Cemetery, Negombo.

A number of Europeans, planters, their wives, and others, moved to Negombo for the warm weather and wonderful beaches. 



Wednesday, November 16, 2016

Cousins

Gordon Fuad, with parents Mike and Kate. 1975
Beaula Braine, Rani Chelvaratnam, and Marie Braine, with grandma. At "Marlynne", Boralessa

Gordon and Stanley Braine, 1974.
George Braine's children at Iriyagolle Estate, Kuliyapitiya. Aunty Rosie is also in the photo.
Grandma with Delphine, Maureen, Virginia, Judy, and Heather. Others unknown. At The Meet, probably in the late 1950s.




Aunty Bee on visit to her brother George Braine's family. I can recognize wife Rose, and children Douglas and Fatima and perhaps Dawn or Cherry. Early 1970's. I have not seen Fatima, Cherry, and Dawn perhaps in 30+ years; although some of Uncle George's children live in Australia, none attended Aunty Alice's birthday celebration in Brisbane last March.

I had last seen Douglas more than 20 years ago, when he ran a farm at Pallakelle, near Kandy. Having heard from my sister Beaula that he was now living at Marawila, not more than 10 km. from Boralessa, cousin Marie and I paid him a visit last week. He has a son and a grandson, which means that 3 Braines live in Marawila. 









Marie's wedding 1974

Beaula was the bridesmaid





After Charles Bandara's birth. Grandma and Rosie are also present.

Brothers and sisters

Taken at "BeeHive", Boralessa, in 1992. Rosie, Lucy, Bee, and Teddy. 

When Burghers (descendants of Europeans) began to emigrate from Ceylon in the 1960s, 70s, and 80s, Aunty Bee left for England, and aunties Kate, Amy, and Alice, along with uncles Ben and George (who left in the 1990s) went to Australia. Only Rosie, Lucy, and Teddy remained in Sri Lanka.  

Late 1980's. At "BeeHive". Rosie, Alice, Lucy, Kate and Bee's daughter Rosita.


Teddy, Lucy, Rosie, and Bee. Late 1980s. Aunty Bee, although she lives in England (she emigrated in 1963), appears in many of these photos because she visited Sri Lanka regularly, almost every two years or so, starting from in 1963. She was the "foreign" aunt we saw most frequently. 


Bee, Alice, Kate, and Rosie in wheelchair. Early 1990's.
At Beehive.

Mary at "Pondside"

Kate, Ben, and Alice, in Australia



Friday, November 11, 2016

Aunty Alice's passing

Three months after we celebrated aunty's 100th birthday, she passed away on June 30, 2016. When I saw her in March, she was so healthy in both body and mind that I expected her to live for another 5 years, if not 10. I had become so fond of her that her unexpected passing sent me into a period of such sadness that I couldn't even write about it for four months. 

She was the last surviving child of Charles Stanley Braine and Engracia Nonis, so her passing is the end of an era. More than that, her memories-rich and detailed-of a happy childhood, her humor, optimism, and good cheer, enriched all our lives. I miss her very much, and grieve.

One question haunts me? Did she die of a broken heart?

Old photos

At "Mar Lynne" in Boralessa. Mid-1970s. Grandma Engracia Nonis with cousins Marie Braine, Rani Chelvaratnam and Beaula Braine. 


Early 1990s. At "Beehive", Boralessa. Sisters Rosie, Alice, Kate, and Bee, with brother Teddy.