Photos of parents together

The following photos of Teddy & Fernie Braine are arranged in reverse chronological order. This display is not complete. More photos will be added later as they are found and scanned.



In the summer of 2004, Roy paid a visit to Sri Lanka and this photo was taken during his visit. Mother was already ill by this time but managed to get about with a walker and could sit up.



This photo was inserted in a birthday card dad sent me in 2003. On the back, he wrote "Valentines Day 2003". He was giving mother a hibiscus flower in the absence of a rose!



With dad's sister Bee. May have been taken in 1999 or later.


December 1999/2000? With Beaula and George

Mid-1990s (?) at Seeduwa. With Beaula

Probably taken in the late 1990s.

At Seeduwa. Mid-1990s?

This must have been taken soon after parents moved to Liyanagemulla, Seeduwa. As usual, they grew a lush garden later on around the parapet wall, but the grass was removed and paved over. The young king coconut palms near the wall grew well and bore lots of nuts but had to be cut down because the nuts were being stolen!


Taken at Hantana during one of Roy's early visits from the USA. I am not certain of the year.

Mid-1990s? Location unknown.

At "The Meet" in Boralessa. Must have been around 1991, just before they sold the house and moved to Seeduwa. For a long time, my father had been trying to sell the house, thinking of moving away from Boralessa because he thought there was nothing for him to do there. First, he offered the house to his sister Bee for Rs. 100,000. This must have been in the late 1970s or early 80s. Aunty Bee agreed but dad changed his mind later. In 1990, he offered the house to Delphine, his sister Kates's daughter, who lived in the UK. Delphine was unable to buy the house. (Dad recorded all this in the diaries he kept meticulously.) Around this time, I used to call my parents monthly from the USA (they didn't have a phone and had to go to a call center on a prearranged date to receive my calls) but dad only told me about the sale after he had sold the house. I didn't have much money at that time but would have been able to buy "The Meet" after I came to Hong Kong in 1995.

For the rest of his life, dad regretted selling "The Meet". We discussed the sale on later occasions and he would give various reasons at different times, all of which I will not state here. But, he was living on mother's tiny pension and the payment I was sending him monthly and probably felt (as I mentioned earlier) that he could be productively employed closer to the city. Also, he felt isolated and neglected by his relatives. He had also become an "agent" to a crooked employment agency and had taken small advances of cash (paltry amounts like Rs. 3,000/) and was embarrassed by when the agency let him down.

November 1991 at "The Meet". Photos taken by Eddie Wambeek, Aunty Bee's husband, on a visit from the UK.

With Beaula & Damian at "The Meet". 1991.

At Hantana. 1989. This was probably their final year at Hantana.

With Damian. 1989. Location unknown.

At Hantana in 1988. My parents had moved there in 1984 to take care of Roy who left for the USA in 1987. My parents would have been lonely after Roy left.


At Hantana in 1988.

Fawzia at the airport, probably leaving for the Sultanate of Oman. The young man in the photo is Razali, Fawzia's nephew. The year must have been 1985 or 86. I was already in the USA and Fawzia continued to teach in Oman till she and Roy joined me in Austin, Texas, in 1987.

Fawzia with my parents, probably at "The Meet", before leaving for the airport. From August 1981 to December 2008, for nearly 30 years, dad drove us to the airport when we left Sri Lanka and met us at the airport when we returned.

Fawzia leaving for the airport from "Pondside". Beaula and Roy are also in the photo. The year is unknown, but may have been in the mid-1980s.

Parents at Hantana, probably around 1987 or 1988. Fawzia's brother Hamlin and his wife Chandra visited Hantana and Hamlin must have taken this photo. They had gone to purchase Roy's electronic organ after Roy left for the USA.

Chandra is seen in the photo with Wasanthis, the girl who used to work for my parents. Wasanthi is now (2009) in Hong Kong working as a dometic helper, and I see her occasionally. She is now a mother with a daughter of 11.

The view at the back shows few trees. It's different now, with lots of avocado and mango trees.

September 1985 at the entrance to the Hantana house.

This is what dad wrote on the back of this photo. "Hillman Minx Super De Luxe 1500cc Manufactured in Japan 1964. Owned by S.T. Braine"

Before the Hillman, dad owned this Mazda which he persuaded us to buy for him for Rs. 50,000/. It must have been in 1982 or 83. The Mazda had a new engine and the silence pipe had to be repeatedly replaced because it could not cope with the thrust of the engine. Almost every trip to Kandy was delayed as a result.

On the way to Kandy or to Boralessa. While they were living at Hantana, my parents made frequent trips to Boralessa to visit "The Meet" and also to keep an eye on "Pondside". The car did not have air conditioning s the trips must have been long and hot (taking 4 to 5 hours, because they stopped frequently on the way), but they didn't mind. My mother would prepare elaborate picnic lunches to enjoy on the way.

Wayside halt for lunch. The photo had been taken by Roy. The older girl looks like Chandra, who used to work for us in Sri Lanka and later in Hong Kong. The younger girl is probably Wasanthi.

On moving to a new house and on New Year's eve, my mother would arrange to boil some milk for good luck. This photo must have been taken at Hantana, probably in 1984.

At Hantana, but not at 53/B/01. My parents changed houses three times, so this must have been at one of the earlier houses.

My mother boiling milk again at Hantana.

At "The Meet" in 1982. I had returned after my first year in Oman, bearing lots of gifts (I brought 45 saris for distribution to relatives.) Sri Lanka was, as usual, going through various import restrictions so foreign goods were highly prized. I had also brought a Yashica 35mm camera and many photos were taken.

Taken inside "The Meet". The girl in front was being brought up by my Aunty Rosie, dad's sister, who lived nearby.

This, taken at "The Meet", must have been around 1974. My maternal grandmother Rosalind is seated in front. The boy on the left is Rohan, the son of Irene, my mother's younger sister. Her nieces and nephews were in and out of our home. Fawzia is on the extreme left. Beaula is carrying Roy.


This was taken at Rathmalagara Estate, Madampe, probably in 1961. I took the photo using a simple box camera. Beaula and my late brother Roy are in front. We were both studying at Maris Stella College, Negombo, dad's alma mater.

Grandma on a visit.Marie and Rani are also in the photo.

 Beaula, Roy, and George

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Rathmalagara belonged to the Coconut Research Institute, which dad joined after a series of jobs in privately owned estates. But his troubles with bosses and colleagues never ended.

Dad returned to Rathmalagara again in the late 1960s. He also served at two other estates owned by the CRI, in Poththukulame and Ambakelle, both beyond Chilaw in the Pallama area.

This is probably the first photo we have of my parents together. They were married on 10th May 1949 at the Registrar’s office in Mahagalkadawala, a remote village near Galgamuwa. This photo may have been taken on their wedding day or earlier when they were courting.

One of the attesting witnesses was a Mr. Weerasingham. A reception for friends at the Galgamuwa Rest House.

One of the first photos of parents together. Taken at Anuradhapura, probably around 1949.